There’s this really attractive person in my Zoom lecture. I don’t know how to ask her out. Her face only comes up when she speaks. How do I grab her attention?

Anon, 21.

Ah, the modern love chamber that is zoom. Now this is all about opportunity, and taking  your chance when you can! Whatever you do you gotta be quick and you got to make  a move that cannot be ignored. Below I’ll list a few simple ideas to get the brain juices  flowing: 

- Flash some flowers 

- Flash some roses 

- Flash a handmade portrait of them 

- Flash a handmade portrait of their mother

- Flash a nut 

- Shout a fact only their family would know about them 

Hope these help, get creative with it. I know you got it in you.

Why has my partner gone off sex?

Well I don’t know. Could be her, could be you? Talk about it. Open conversation is always the best way to go here.

Got the Thor trilogy on? She is daydreaming on that sofa man, just like you are. No ones to blame, Hemsworth is a handsome man. Maybe mix it up though, bring some different things into play. Whipped cream, handcuffs, a hamster. Get creative man, let your combined imaginations loose.